Womens March – Equality Needs to be a Reality

A Personal Essay on Feminism

On Friday, the World as we know it changed forever. If you follow me on Twitter you will have seen that over the last 48 hours I have been retweeting much more that I usually do. I tried to reign it in but I had so many feelings and I wasn’t managing to process them. So sharing other’s reactions was my way of showing support, solidarity, etc. Friday I was all about the inauguration, today was all about the Womens March. I have never felt more hope or pride than I did today seeing so many images from all over the World of women standing together and saying, “No, this is not okay. We are equal, and we will be treated as such.”

I don’t know if it will make a difference. After all, we have hundreds of years of societal, cultural and religious conditioning to combat. But it is a start. It is setting something in motion. Judging from the social media reactions of the patriarchy it is terrifying them. Maybe they are getting a glimpse into what OUR lives have been. I realised today that this is what the patriarchy are truly afraid of, that if they allow us our equality we will begin to treat them the way they have treated us for centuries.

It is 2017 we should not still be having this conversation but we are. We are still prisoners because of the idea some one came up with long ago that men are somehow inherently superior purely because they are men. Because of an accident of birth they are somehow stronger, smarter, better than we are. But I’ve never cried and threatened murder because some stranger (of the opposite sex) on the internet dared to have an opinion about a video game that I disagreed with.

IT HAS TO STOP. THE TIME HAS COME.

We need to speak out. We need to fight. We need to start holding the policy makers accountable. We need to be united. Our differences don’t matter. We need to stand together. We need to stop tearing each other down. We are women. We need to support each other, to support ALL women. The march today has shown no matter where we are in the World we all believe that we should be treated equally.

The Womens March

This morning some bloke decided to ask why “women” in England were protesting. What did we think it would achieve. Do we think America’s Government care what women in other countries think of them. I believe his exact words were:

“Utter pathetic! What the hell has the US president got to do with Leeds. #MakeAmericaGreatAgain #Brexit”

Delightful, right?

A very lovely lady replied explaining that it wasn’t just about the USA it was about women’s equality, she asked the original tweeter if he’d heard the way Trump speaks about women. His response is somewhat typical of the kind of men who live in denial of rape culture, and the reality of what women deal with on a daily basis.

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Yes, he really does say “People choose to take offence, others don’t give offence. If something offends you that’s your problem.”  He boils the entire womens march principle down to us being offended. You can see my response in the photo but just in case you can’t what I point out is that the way Trump talks about women doesn’t offend me it terrifies me.

The way Trump talks about women is not only disrespectful it is a symptom of the patriarchy. He is normalising the belief some men have that women are just there for their gratification. That men’s sexual pleasure is more important than women’s autonomy. They feel justified in policing our bodies. They can do what they want with them but heaven forbid we use them ourselves. Let us not forget that the man who is now the President of the United States once said:

“I did try and fuck her. She was married. I moved on her like a bitch, but I couldn’t get there. And she was married. Then all of a sudden I see her, she’s now got the big phony tits and everything. She’s totally changed her look. I’ve gotta use some Tic Tacs, just in case I start kissing her. You know I’m automatically attracted to beautiful — I just start kissing them. It’s like a magnet. Just kiss. I don’t even wait. And when you’re a star they let you do it. You can do anything… Grab them by the pussy. You can do anything.”

This is not okay. This is NOT normal, and it should NEVER be treated as if it is. We are NOT chattel, we never were. Someone just decided to treat us that way because it was the only way to exert some form of control.

It is time to say no more. We will not be under your control any longer. We will speak up. We will speak out. We will use our words, our voices, and we will make things different. The womens march is only the start. You will see how far we can go.

 

We are the creatives, the writers, the artists, the musicians…..we are the revolution.

Big Johnny Prostate Stimulator from MEO

Double Ended Dildo

1.3 kilos of pure ecstasy and 1.3 kilos of luxury. Made from highly polished surgical steel, “Big Johnny” fits comfortably in your hand (thanks to its built-in handle recess) and allows for intense, deep thrusts! Additionally, “Big Johnny” can be used on both sides for double the fun.

From MEO

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Big Johnny

The first thing I noticed on receiving the Big Johnny is the weight. This dildo is super heavy, there is some real heft to it.  I mean I know it says it’s solid stainless steel but somehow that just didn’t convert to the reality in my head. It is REALLY heavy.

It comes in at 10″ in length and  1.33″ in diameter. It features two distinct heads (40 and 50 mm diameter). The Big Johnny really is big. In fact much as I love the gorgeous mirror smooth polished surface it is too big for me to use……or at least for me to use on me. However, it is a lovely ‘punishment’ size for some slutty subby men I know.

The finish is clean with no dints, scratches, or seams. It is a truly beautiful dildo. Although, MEO market it as a prostate stimulator, if you are a lady who loves a good size dildo that also feels great I think you’re going to enjoy this too.

Having the two heads gives you options. There is a handgrip moulded into the shaft to make it easier to keep a hold of while you are thrusting.

Overall

A great addition to your collection if you like something substantial.

 

 

*I was sent the Big Johnny by MEO in exchange for an honest and unbiased review.

Quick Hand Job – Erotic Flash Fiction

Masturbation Monday #33

Welcome to this week’s #MasturbationMonday, Quick Hand Job. The inspiration was:

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Do you get the feeling she knows exactly what she wants? I think so…and now he’s clear on that, too. (Oh, and this is part of a larger gif set – you might want to check it out. Scroll down for the link.)

Bloggers and authors – share your hottest scenes and posts. Feel free to use this week’s picture as a prompt but don’t feel obligated. Write what turns you on! **Please make sure to include the Masturbation Monday banner or badge and link back to this page on your blog post!**

Readers – check out the different posts to find something that makes you want to get off.

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Quick Hand Job

He gave George a last spin as the song finished, spinning her into him. They were both breathing hard as she hugged him,”Have you been practising?”
He laughed, looking down at her, “I might have taken a few lessons.”
She hugged him again, and as a slow song started playing he wrapped his arms around her, only just hearing the thank you she whispered against his shoulder.

George had told him about the swing band her friend Mara had booked for her wedding reception, explaining that it was something they’d enjoyed together as kids. She’d offered to teach him a few steps but he hadn’t seemed that interested, so she didn’t mention it again. Now she felt like she was floating, she couldn’t believe he’d taken dance lessons for her.

Adrenaline was still coursing through her, and she felt a change inside her. The thrill of the dance becoming a flush of desire. Shifting her stance she pressed into him, angling herself so one hip pressed against him. She tilted her chin up to kiss him, a deep firm kiss that told him what she was feeling. As the song ended she wiggled against his crotch, smiling when she felt his cock twitch against her as it started to stiffen.
She stood on tiptoe to whisper in his ear, “Quick hand job?”

The walked hurriedly down the corridor, they ducked round a corner and found a dead end. They listened for a moment outside the door, and then he was kissing her. His hands inside her jacket, under her top, stroking over her stomach. She fumbled with his zip, glad for the loose fit of his dress trousers. His briefs restrained his erection, and she pushed her hand through the gap, allowing his cock to pop free.

She wrapped her hand around his shaft, squeezing and stroking it. He moaned, his hands cupping her breasts, squeezing them. When her nipples puckered he ran his fingertips over them, pinching as she squeezed his cock. Their breathing was ragged, his moans and hands combined were causing her cunt to throb. When he tugged one nipple extra hard she whimpered at the intensity of the next throb. He moved one hand sliding up her skirt, pressing her thighs apart, and stroking over her cunt. Finding her already slick with desire, he slipped a finger inside her. Circling his thumb over her clit until she leant forward, pressing her mouth against his shoulder to muffle her moans. Her hand clenching around his cock, moving faster as he pushed her towards the edge. As she came she bit his shoulder, and her knees weakened. He pulled his fingers out, moving them up to his lips, and sucking them.

She dropped to her knees, pressing her lips to the head of his cock. Opening them wide, and taking his cock into her mouth. She focussed on the head, keeping her hand working his shaft as she sucked him. She curled her tongue, flicking it against the underside of the head. He grabbed a fistful of her hair as he leant back against the wall. His breathing hitched, and she thought she heard him say her name. She moved her hand and slid her lips down his shaft. Taking in as much of him as she could, as she sucked. He grunted, and she felt the hot liquid spilling down her throat.

When he’d finished she pulled back, carefully tucking him back into his pants, and zipping up his trousers. He held a hand to help her stand. She placed her hand in his and as she rose they heard a sound from across the hall. They both looked over as the door in the opposite dead end clicked shut.

 

 

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Joyboxx – Hygienic Storage System

Sex Toy Accessories

Meet patent pending JOYBOXX with PLAYTRAY; the world’s first hygienic storage system designed to handle pleasure products before, during and after use. The joy’s inside! Be on top of the sexual wellness movement with these innovative new tools that help customers protect their passion at an affordable price!

From Meo

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Joyboxx Hygienic Storage System

The Joyboxx is a hygienic storage system made by Passionate Playground. It is made of non-porous, food-grade polypropylene which is blended with an antimicrobial agent during manufacturing, so it won’t come off with use or cleaning. It’s easy to clean with soap and hot water, or for an extra deep clean, you can even put it in your dishwasher (top rack only).

External dimensions are: 12.60”(L) x 5.5” (D) x 5.0” (H).
Internal dimensions are: 11.25” (L) x 5.5” (D) x 3.5” (H).

  • Dishwasher Safe
  • Includes Playtray
  • PVC, BPA & Phthalate Free
  • Fits most sex toy products
  • Food-grade, non-porous plastic
  • Discreet USB toy charging hole
  • Sophisticated Unisex Design
  • Anti-microbial silver ION agent mixed into plastic
  • “Easy access”top compartment for small items
  • Child resistant, removable, quiet sliding lock
  • Mini combo lock included for 100% security
  • Fits inside most night stands and drawers
  • Protected ventilation holes help moisture evaporate and keeps dust out

The Joyboxx looks very much like any cosmetic storage case or even like a small tool box. It is quite small but capable of holding a good variety of toys. It’s the perfect size to hold a good selection for taking with you to a play party, or while travelling. The little compartment in the lid is great for holding the charging cables, or if you’re going to a party for holding your condoms, lube, and cleaning wipes.

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The Joyboxx has a removable tray that is great for putting your toys on to dry after washing. It is also a good place to put them after having sexy fun, if you don’t want to jump up and wash them straight away. It keeps them off surfaces, and stops any germ contamination. There is also a charging hole at the back which is great for discreet charging. No more worrying toys will be discovered while out charging.

Because of the little compartment on top the Joyboxx doesn’t have a handle but I didn’t find this to be a problem. It was easy to pick it up by the sliding lock (in locked position). It also fit perfectly in most of my tote bags, so I had no problem transporting it.

I’d love to see Passionate Playground bring out a version that is longer (not necessarily bigger) so I could fit my bigger impact toys in it; things like my tawse, canes, longer paddles, etc. And a bigger chest for keeping at home that would fit my Doxy in would be fab too.

 

Overall

I really like the Joyboxx. It is a solid piece of kit great for storing my favourite vibrators and dildos, as well as lubes and cleaning spray.

 

*I was sent the Joyboxx by MEO in exchange for an honest and unbiased review.

Victorian Governess Tawse from MEO

Impact Play

Today I am reviewing the Victorian Governess Tawse from MEO.

This two strap Tawse is a severe instrument of corporal punishment; the kind of strap used by the stricter Victorian governess and nanny on their wards in days gone bye. This fine instrument is made of the finest 12-14 oz (4-5mm) leather.

It is 19.1/2 (50cm) inches long and 4 inches (10cm) wide at the business end; where there are two tails, that pack a real sting. This strap was carefully hand crafted to original specifications. All the edges are marked with a saddlers crease line, fully bevelled and burnished to a fine smooth finish.

If you are a serious collector of disciplinary instruments, this is a must for your collection.

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Victorian Governess Tawse

My first thought when I opened this was holy crap! It is heavy, really heavy. It feels great in your hand, and has a lovely flex to it. As any good domme does I tried it (very lightly) on the inside of my arm, and then I swore a lot. Then I messaged my friend who has the best little wiggly sub girl ever, to tell him all about it. I believe my message was a photo with the caption this needs to meet xx’s arse.

The Victorian Governess Tawse is not a toy for people who like gentle play, this is a toy for those who like to feel the pain. *Grins evilly* It’s really nice. If it was being used on me I would need a serious warm up first. So far I have only been the giver, and have left some absolutely gorgeous stripes with it.

I kind of feel like this is a two in one impact play toy. The edges feel slightly sharp, so they really sting on impact but it is also heavy enough that the impact thuds through the bottom.

Victorian Governess Tawse

 

Overall

I really liked the Victorian Governess Tawse. Leaves a lovely strip on naughty bottoms.