Flick EM60 from ElectraStim – ElectroStimulation Play

Electro Stimulation

Electrostimulation is a unique type of sexual stimulation as unlike normal sex toys that vibrate or rotate, ElectraStim directly stimulates your nerve endings using carefully produced electrical signals that generate a highly stimulating sensation.

When using ElectraStim stimulators and electrodes you’ll feel tingling and contractions that complement sexual contact, improve the pleasure you feel and can even bring you to orgasm with no additional stimulation required. On higher levels electrostimulation can feel uncomfortable and even tortuous, which is why e-stim has such a close association with BDSM. The sensations you experience are entirely dependent on you, increase power slowly for a more sensual and erotic electro-sex experience.

From ElectraStim

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Flick EM60

At Sexhibition in 2015 I won the ElectraStim prize draw, which gave me a voucher to spend in their online store. It took me about eight months to pick what I wanted. I was hoping to get the Flick Duo but it had gotten to the point where I felt bad it was taking me so long to save up, so I ended up with a Flick EM60 Stimulation Pack, and the lovely team threw in a Nona G-Spot probe as well.

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The pack contained the single-channel EM60 Flick unit, 4 ElectraPads, a connecting wire with 2x 2mm pin connectors, a USB charging cable, a storage pouch, instructions and a 1-year warranty. The printed outer sleeve shows a photo of the unit, and the inner box is plain black, and very solid. It would be great for storage if you needed it but you get a fab storage pouch in the pack, which perfectly fits the unit, wires and ElectraPads in.

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After charging the unit for a few hours I decided I would be best starting off slowly, so I opted for the ElectraPads. The unit I got is the single channel so I could only use two pads (or one probe) at a time. I first tried the pads on my inner thighs and found the sensations were quite intense, even on the lower settings. I struggled using the pads to get me off and decided to switch to the probe. I think for a situation where you want to ‘get off’ the pads would be best used with a partner, with each of you wearing one pad so when you touch you complete the circuit and get that extra tingle. *See below for my favourite solo use of the pads.

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I had to use a vibe to warm me up because the bulbous shape of the Nona probe meant I had a bit of trouble inserting it. However once it was in and I turned on the stimulator it was really good. The head sat against my G-spot perfectly, and the electrostimulation made my muscles contract. It’s a strange sensation. It doesn’t feel anything like when you use a vibrator, it’s a completely different feel. It took a while for me to stop mentally analysing it, and just concentrate on the feelings it produced. The instructions for use suggest that you always use conducting gel however I found my normal water-based lube worked just fine. I did have a slight issue with the wires getting caught but then I am a very wiggly person when I’m coming.

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The Flick EM60 unit has a somewhat unique selling point (and is presumably where it got it’s name), when it is turned on there is a setting you can use, where you flick the unit to get a burst of stimulation. I found if I stuck the ElectraPads to my butt, I could spank myself using the flick motion. And because the intensity can be controlled it is very easy to warm up; starting at a lower intensity and building to a sharp ‘slap’.  This was great fun, and would be great for people who like the sensation of spanking but don’t have the opportunity (or partner) to be spanked very often.

Overall

I really liked the Flick EM60, and I’m looking forward to playing with it more. However, if I was buying now, I would definitely go for the Duo version with the extra ‘channels’.

*The Flick EM60 and Nona were provided by ElectraStim as a prize for a draw. They did not request or expect a review. All views expressed are are my honest and unbiased opinion of the product.

Common Denominator

A Personal Post

As a person it sucks when you end up having to think of yourself in mathematical terms, when something happens to you so often that you manage to reduce yourself to being the common denominator.

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Common Denominator

You know that thing where something happens once and you think, was it something I did? Then it happens with someone else and you think, maybe it is something I did wrong. Then it happens again and you sit yourself down to start analysing because at this point YOU are the common denominator. It must be something you’re doing.

It always starts the same way; good conversation, a few jokes, a laugh, and some flirting. They tell you they care. Make you feel like you are important to them. They break down your barriers, you let them in, then just when YOU really start to care about them, they shift the goalposts. Oh I have a girlfriend, sorry I’m actually married, did I mention xyz?

And you don’t see it coming because it is so left-field. It goes from YOU being the person they talk to every day, the person they say good morning and goodnight to, to you being someone they message every few weeks if that. You go from being someone they care about to someone who doesn’t even factor in their life. And that hurts.

It’s the fact that in the beginning they were obviously spinning a line, and you were stupid enough to believe it. Why couldn’t you see that it was just something they were saying. You’d rather they were just honest, you’re a grown-up, if all they want is to get in your pants a few times, maybe just say that. Don’t bullshit about being friends, about how much you care when the honest truth is you’re just looking for someone it is convenient to fuck while there’s no other acceptable options. In all fairness generally speaking, we like sex so chances are we would be into that but be fair with us. We deserve to know that’s what it is before getting emotionally invested in things. If there’s a time limit on the…….”friendship” just let us know.

If we’re actually friends, maybe you could try being our friend. Be there for us, let us be there for you. Talk to us, not just when you NEED something but just because. Especially if that’s how things were in the beginning. And if that’s done, if we’re not friends, then tell us, don’t keep us hanging. When these things happen over and over we are going to start asking ourselves, what am I doing that is making this something that happens? I am the common denominator so I must be doing something to cause this.

I don’t want to be one of those people who never trusts, even though I know I already have trust barriers people have to get through but every time this sort of thing happens, it breaks me just a little bit more. I feel myself sliding a little bit further towards being the person who can’t ever trust……because if you don’t let them in they can’t hurt you.

Me Time – Masturbation Monday Erotic Flash Fiction

Masturbation Monday #30

Welcome to this week’s #MasturbationMonday, Me Time. The inspiration was:

me timeFrantic, holding back screams, writhing across the bed – now that’s my kind of masturbation fun! What say you?

Bloggers and authors – share your hottest scenes and posts. Feel free to use this week’s picture as a prompt but don’t feel obligated. Write what turns you on!

Readers – check out the different posts to find something that makes you want to get off.

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Me Time

I was supposed to be doing a quick outfit change; going from my casual daytime clothes to the cocktail dress I’d brought to wear for dinner. I left Johnny, my security man on guard outside the hotel room door, so I was sure of having at least ten minutes of private me time.

I pulled off my t-shirt, and dropped it on the chair, unfastening my jeans as I walked back towards the bed. I sit down on it, wriggling my legs to get the jeans off, leaving them heaped on the floor. I catch site of myself in the mirror; the pure white of the matching cotton pants and bra, setting off my golden tan perfectly. The white underwear is so virginal it’s laughable but after the press fury when someone snapped a photo of my black bra strap peaking out from under a white shirt my PR people had thrown a hissy fit, and it was easier to just go along with them.

My body wasn’t perfect but finally after years of never feeling good enough I was happy with how I looked. I’d never felt sexier or more healthy, and seeing images of me tucking into bowls of pasta published by the tabloids just made me smile. It’s easier to ignore the comments on weight gain when you know you’re still sexy. I smoothed my hand down my body; feeling the fullness of my breasts, the dip where the elastic waistband of my pants sat, the rounded softness of my stomach. I slip my fingers under the side of my pants, stroking over the crinkly curls covering my mound.

As I stroke I notice moisture forming, I slip a finger between my lips and circle my clit. I glance at the clock to see how much me time I have left, I wriggle further onto the bed, falling back against the pillows. I slide my hand further into my pants, using two fingers to rub my clit. My other hand pulls down my bra, freeing my breasts; I tweak a nipple, pulling it up and twisting hard. I stroke over my outer labia, spreading the moisture over the curls. Pushing two fingers between my lips I find my hard nub, and rub it. Applying downward pressure as I increase the tempo of my fingers. I release my nipple, moving my hand to add pressure to the fingers on my clit. As spikes of pleasure shoot through me, I press my head into the pillow, arching my back. The pressure builds inside me, my body rolling with the waves of pleasure, I’m gasping out. And as the waves reach the crest, I cover my mouth, catching the screams of my orgasm in my palm.

 

Hope you enjoyed my latest entry for Masturbation Monday, Me Time.  You can find more sexy stories by clicking the button below:

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Strap On from Sh!Women Store – Purple Harness and Dildo

Dildo and 2 Strap Leather Harness

Handmade using the finest, softest leather, the 2-Strap Harness feels warm and sensual against the skin. Comfortable and practical. it is perfect for all strap-on play, including pegging ( when a women anally pleasures her male lover, using a strap on). With a neat front panel to hold the dildo close against your pubic mound, it feels secure, body-close and intuitive in use.

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Wirly Girly 2 is a  medium-length, slim dildo, 5.75 inches long and just about 1 inch in diameter,  and very popular it is too, for both vaginal and anal play. The slender, gently ribbed shaft delivers stimulating penetrative sensations and with a medium length, it feels soft, sensual and super user-friendly during play. Made from 100% body-safe silicone and featuring our signature heart-shaped base, Wirly Girly 2 Slim Dildo can be worn in a harness or held by hand and is also perfectly safe for anal play.

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Purple Strap On from Sh!Women Store

The first thing I have to say is how much of a pleasure it is to receive parcels from Sh!Women. They make it such a good experience, it’s like Christmas……but sexier. Each item is individually wrapped in purple tissue paper, secured with a Sh! sticker. They even include some little sachets of lube, and an information sheet.

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When I finally succumbed to the temptation of knowing what was inside the parcel and opened it, I wasn’t disappointed. The inner packaging was simple; a plain white box with a clear plastic front.

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Harness

The first thing I opened was the harness. This gorgeous deep purple 2 strap leather harness is soft as butter. The feel is beautiful; it is really soft and supple. It feels almost weightless in place. I was a bit worried about how well the ‘D’rings would hold the straps when it was in use but they worked perfectly, holding firm even with vigorous thrusting. I really liked this harness, it was very easy to tighten the straps when it was on, so it fit securely. I found it very comfortable to wear, and it didn’t chafe at all. The central straps that run between your legs sat nicely, and gave slight stimulation when I was thrusting. The only down side is the ‘O’rings used to hold the dildo, you’re given three sizes which is great. However, changing the rings is a pain in the arse; you have to completely undo all of the straps to do it. Not a huge thing just a bit of an annoyance. I was also a bit concerned about the best way to clean it, and whether bodily fluids were going to damage the leather. So far it has been fine, I have cleaned it with a soft cloth, and anti-bac toy spray.

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Dildo

Next I opened the Wirly Girly 2. It is a lovely purple colour, with a heart shaped base. It is a fairly small slim dildo made of pure silicone, with a twisty pattern. I was quite surprised by how squishy this dildo was…..not packer soft but it has a definite squeezability. It isn’t so soft that it causes a problem in use but you do have to position it with your hand as you start to slide it in. The ridges feel really good when you’re thrusting. Being pure silicone it is very easy to clean and sterilise, so it can be safely shared between partners. The Wirly Girly comes in a variety of sizes and colours so there is sure to be one that works for you. The downside is that like all silicone dildos, it picks up dust like a magnet but it’s easy to rinse off before using.

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Overall

I was really pleased with the strap on, both the harness  and the dildo were great quality and worked really well.

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* I was sent the strap on by Sh!Women in exchange for an honest and unbiased review.

 

Knicker Rocker Glory Collaboration – Save Our Sex

Collaboration

About eight months ago I had an idea for something I wanted to try but I didn’t think it was the sort of thing that would work here on HornyGeekGirl, and at the time I didn’t have another place that felt like a match for it. So I wrote it in my future ideas journal, and sat on it hoping I would find the perfect home for it at some point.

Then around four months ago I came across Knicker Rocker Glory, a fantastic online boudoir of erotic accessories. I loved the site, the ethos, and basically everything about the site. So I tentatively reached out to Ruby (the lovely lady in charge), to see how she would feel about possibly working with me. We discussed the details of my idea, and while she was interested she wanted to hold off on putting it into action until after she had finished the update of her website.

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Knicker Rocker Glory

Just a few weeks ago I met the lovely Ruby in London, and we had a good long chat about our plans. We firmed up the details, and got everything ready. So for what feels like the longest few weeks on record I have been sitting on this massive piece of news. This week Ruby contacted me to let me know her updated site was all ready to go, and the webpage for our collaboration was sorted, and we could make the announcement.

knicker rocker glorySave Our Sex

There is nothing worse than sitting on a problem or a question and not knowing who to ask. Especially when that question or problem is related to sex, fantasies, fetishes or relationships.

That’s why I am very pleased to announce that Knicker Rocker Glory have taken me on as their resident Sexpert and sex-educator in training.

My mission is to spread sex positivity, educating and encouraging people to explore their sexuality and learn about their bodies. To give people the means to communicate their wants and needs to their partners, and to consider alternate solutions to problems they may be having.

By talking about sex, we can help normalise it. You will not be the only one, that we can promise you!

You can read more about Save Our Sex by clicking the logo below. On the link you will also find a form which you can use to send you anonymous questions.  Questions will be shared on the blog, and answered openly so other people can be helped by the answers.

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