I think music can make or break a date, knowing when a slow song is needed and when it should be more up tempo. Also knowing whether there should be music in the bedroom (or y’know, wherever you decide to have sex) can be a minefield. I like music in the background but not everyone does, and I don’t want something slow or sloppy (generally) I want something with a beat, and good tempo.
I’m sure we all have that one song that no matter where we are or what we’re doing when we hear it we are reminded of another time and place. I have quite a lot of songs that do this. But only a few that relate to sex, so as this is a sex blog those are the ones I want to talk about.
The first one that springs to mind is Shoot to Thrill by AC/DC. I spent so much time listening to this around the time I met Mr M. that I ended up setting it as the text message alert for him on my phone. In my head it is linked with sexual arousal….so much so that even just hearing it is enough to cause my nipples to perk up and my cunt to start throbbing. And as a Marvel fangirl I hear it a lot. In fact it’s on one of my favourite albums. lol.
The next one is Born to be myBaby by Bon Jovi (although it could be any Bon Jovi or 80s classic rock song to be fair), it takes me back to first love. And makes me think of listening to tapes parked up in his ancient beat-up fiesta (a vehicle that was way roomier than you would think). I doesn’t arouse me in the same way Shoot to Thrill does but it’s more of a slow-burning feeling.
I also have a few songs that have a negative effect, nothing is more likely to turn me off than Abba (believe or not had a guy put it on as ‘mood music’), or Chris DeBurgh (why do guys still think it’s sexy, why???).
Do you have songs that turn you on? Or even songs that turn you off?