I know I am a ‘sex’ blogger and my username has horny in it but that does not mean I am on twitter looking for men to sext with. I’m looking for people I can have a conversation and a laugh with…..not just to trade innuendo (although that can be fun too). Not everything we talk about has to be sex related, I’m a geek, talk to me about geeky stuff; honest dialogue about Marvel (comics or films) is way more likely to get you a follow than “nice tits”. If you want me to follow you back you need to make an effort to interact with me, try saying hi, comment on one of my tweets that doesn’t involve my naked breasts (I do like the appreciative comments but it doesn’t really count as interaction for these purposes).
If you’ve followed me on twitter and I haven’t returned the follow please be assured that it was a conscious decision, and that I thought about it before it was made. I could have decided not to follow you for a number of reasons, such as;
- Your twitter feed is all RTs of naked pictures
- It’s all you telling people nice tits/arse/pussy/etc
- You don’t tweet stuff that I’m interested in
- Your TL is all you saying follow back, DM, do you kik
- I think a follow will get me DM spam of your cock, or requests for sexting
- If we have never had a conversation (nice tits does NOT count as conversation)
And my final reason for not following back:
- I DON’T WANT TO!
Although, this post specifies twitter I would also like to add that this goes for emails too. No I do not want you to send me a photo of your cock with the words don’t you wish you could wrap your mouth round this (or if I do you will be VERY aware of it…and we will have talked previously). So when I politely say thanks but I’m ok, and please don’t send me stuff like this again, do NOT take that as an invitation to send me reams of abuse, telling me what a bitch and tease I am or that I need force-feeding your ‘hard cock’, because all that will get you is blocked.
Gentleman please note: there is not a woman on earth who owes you a gorram thing; not her time, not her acknowledgement, and certainly not her body. No matter what you have chosen to give her, she is well within her rights to choose NOT to give you anything in return. Get over yourselves.